Jaiden's Obituary

Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa, beloved 8-year old daughter of Paul and Holleigh (Ciardelli) Tlapa, died at Boston Children’s Hospital on January 14, 2008. Jaiden was a “water baby” (born underwater) at Monadnock Hospital in Peterborough, NH on September 22, 1999. Jaiden was injured in an accident on December 20, 2007, and she courageously fought for her life for 25 days.
Jaiden will be remembered as a kind and loving third grade student at Heron Pond Elementary School; always ready and willing to help others. According to a boy in her class, “She was funny, nice, creative, didn’t tease people, and best of all, she was a happy student.”
Jaiden wanted to be a Mother and a Veterinarian when she grew up. She also planned to adopt children as she believed there were too many unloved children in the world. Jaiden was very active in the MCAA; she played softball, soccer and basketball. She loved to have play-dates with friends, visit with her extended family, and make cards for people. Jaiden loved to swim and do gymnastics, she also loved the ocean, dolphins, the color blue, and to simply be with her family.
Jaiden was one of four children; in addition to her parents, she leaves behind a 14-year old sister Alexeigh, a 5-year old sister Aspen, and a 2-year old brother Gage. Survivors include Grammy Mev and Grampa Gary Ciardelli of Wilton, NH; Aunt Pam Ciardelli and Uncle Bohdan Zaryckyj of Milford; Aunt Jody and Uncle Todd Ciardelli of Milford; Aunt Sharon Davis of Hillsboro; Grammy Dee and Grampa Dick Tlapa of Medfield, MA; Aunt Laura and Uncle John Bishop of Atlanta, GA; and Uncle Guy and Aunt Laura Tlapa of Boston, MA. Jaiden also leaves behind cherished Godparents, Wendy and Frank Bauerschmidt of Milford, NH, God-sister Amri, and eight beloved cousins: Geena, Alli, Autumn, Troy, Adam, Kelsey, Rachel and Jack.
Jaiden was the proud care-giver of her newly adopted Border Terrier dog Dori, whom she loved dearly. Jaiden had a beautiful spirit filled to the brim with life. She was a star far too bright for this universe; one that burned vividly and touched many lives in a deeply profound way. She will live on forever in the hearts and memories of all those who loved her and many who never even knew her.
The Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa fund was originally established to help offset medical and other expenses for her family. Jaiden’s Mother, Holleigh Tlapa, is planning to run the foundation in Jaiden’s name to carry on her legacy of love. Definitive plans have not been finalized, but the foundation will serve to help other families in similar situations.
A former bus driver of Jaiden’s created a blog for her while she was in the hospital, which can be accessed at http://www.jaident.blogspot.com/. The blog was a source of inspiration, prayers and love for Jaiden’s entire family during her stay at Children’s Hospital. The Tlapa family is forever grateful for the support and prayers offered by their families, friends, neighbors, churches, first responders, community; and strangers from across the globe.
A private service to celebrate Jaiden’s life was held at the United Methodist Church in Milford, NH on January 22, 2008, led by Pastor Tom Getchell-Lacey. A public service to commemorate her life will be held in Milford at a future date, which will be announced on the blog.
Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa is now an angel soaring above the earth, her spirit as beautiful as ever. She is gone from this world, but she will never be forgotten.

A Message From The Tlapa Family

Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa lost her courageous battle for life this morning at Boston Children's Hospital. Please know that in a way our prayers were answered, just not in the way we hoped. Jaiden is running free now with no pain and infection, and she has spread her new wings to take the most glorious flight imaginable.

We are saddened beyond words for our loss. Jaiden has touched our family and this world in such a profound and beautiful way; she will never be forgotten.

We thank each one of you for your faith, love, support, and constant prayers. Please keep alive whatever inner strength and spark that Jaiden has ignited in you. Her life had meaning beyond true comprehension for so many of us. Our job now is to keep her memory alive and incorporate the lessons she has taught us all into our daily lives.

We ask that you respect our privacy at this most difficult time. We will plan a public memorial service to celebrate Jaiden's life at some point. Once we have chosen a date and location we will post this information. But the first celebration of Jaiden's extraordinary life will be private, for immediate family only.

Peace be with you all.
~The Tlapa Family

A friend sent this poem to me last week, I wanted to share it with you all.

Do not stand at my grave and weepI'm not there
I do not sleep,
I am a 1000 winds that blow,
I am the diamond glimpse of snow;
I am the sunlight on ripened green,
I am the gentle autumns rain,
Do not stand at my grave and cry,I am not there,
I did not die.

Boys And Girls Club Join In To Raise Funds For Jaiden

The Boys and Girls Club is having an event that is going to star the local talent from our youth AND out a local family. Next Saturday(January 19th)at 7pm, is the Rising Star Talent Competition. 100% of the admission fee of $2 is going to the fund. I have attached the flyer for you to read. Please click on the box to see it in a larger format.

Today's Waffle Breakfast

Today's Waffle Breakfast hosted by the Milford Fire Department was a huge success. There were so many families there looking to help out the Tlapa family.

Here are some pictures from the day, please enjoy!




Also, the beautiful sign that was made is at the Fire Station. The makers of the sign can stop by and pick it up tomorrow.

Elisha's Fundraising

Alex from Elisha's is offering 20% of your check to The Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa Fund. The fundraiser date is Monday, January 21st. So if you were planning to have a day out for lunch or dinner print out this coupon below and stop by Elisha's to help with a good cause

Waffle Breakfast Tomorrow

Just a reminder that tomorrow is the waffle breakfast at the fire station

Thank you everyone

As you can see from the numbers below, there are so many people all over the world praying for Jaiden. I can thank all of you for that.

It was your true compassion and concern for Jaiden that caused you to stop for a minute and share Jaiden's story. Whether it be in line at the grocery store, through an email, a phone conversation, wearing Jaiden's ribbon or having it displayed proudly on your vehicle or mailbox. It was you that caused the visitor numbers to grow on this blog.

Jaiden is in the hearts of all of us, everyday. We all think of her and the Tlapa family nonstop throughout the day. I know even when I lie down in bed at night, Jaiden is the last thought on my mind.

I know we are all anxious to hear news of Jaiden's condition. Updates will be posted when we have them. In the mean time, please leave your prayers and good thoughts for Jaiden and the Tlapa family.

Thank you

Jacqueline

Check out these statistics.......

1.
United States
22,870

2.
Canada
177

3.
United Kingdom
41

4.
Germany
38

5.
Australia
13

6.
Spain
8

7.
New Zealand
5

8.
Italy
3

9.
Kuwait
3

10.
Norway
3

11.
Brazil
2

12.
Netherlands
2

13.
South Korea
1

14.
Iceland
1

15.
India
1

16.
Japan
1

17.
Chile
1

18.
Mexico
1

19.
Switzerland
1

20.
Singapore
1

21.
(not set)
1

22.
Bermuda
1

23.
Ghana
1

24.
Philippines
1

25.
Bolivia
1

26.
Vietnam
1

27.
South Africa
1

Fundraiser Update

Thank you to all who attended the initial planning meeting for Fundraising efforts for the Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa Fund. At this time we are planning two events: The first event will be an Adult Dance at Hampshire Hills. We are hoping to hold this event in early March. The second event will be a family fun day at the Hampshire Dome. This event will be in mid-April. We are looking for as many donated items for these events as possible. Please contact the appropriate sub-committee chairperson below if you can help us in any of these areas: Food -- Hallee Johnson - pjandhj@hotmail.com Facilities -- Kathy Carson - the5carsons@verizon.net Raffles -- Theresa Waller - c_waller@netzero.net Silent Auction -- Jackie Merrill - sportsmom4444@aol.com Publicity -- Terry Negrete - tdemers@comcast.net Transportation/Valet -- Kelly Lacasse -mailto:mblondekel80@aol.com or Kathy Donovan - Kdonovan@eatonberube.com Decorations -- Tricia Shea - liamollyshea@aol.com Theme Baskets -- Karen Cagney -mailto:KarenC@Hmisinc.com or Kim Calden - (copy both) kcalden@gmail.com Music -- Shane Hooker - shooker@cisco.com Teen Volunteers for staffing -- Amanda Clark -- mandyswim9@yahoo.com A Reminder:You do not have to be on the raffle or silent auction committee to obtain an item. I just ask that you contact Jackie Merrill for items OVER $50 in value and Theresa Waller for items UNDER $50 in in value PRIOR to making contact for the request. This is to ensure we do not go to the same source repeatedly. In other words, feel free to use your network! We would love to have a "Celebrity" lend their name to this cause as well and perhaps attend the Family Fun Day at the Hampshire Dome. If you know anyone that might fit this need please contact Kathy Carson at the address below PRIOR to contacting that person. Again, think outside of the box and use your networking! One big name is all it will take to fill the Hampshire Dome on Family Fun Day! Please feel free to contact Kathy with any questions. She can be reached at http://www.blogger.com/the5carsons@verizon.net or by phone at 672-3803.Thank you so much for all you are doing. The Tlapa's are so overwhelmed by everyone's support and are deeply appreciative.

Waffle Breakfast This Sunday

A Request From Holleigh

Thank you so much for your continued prayers and support. Jaiden is battling a couple of infections right now. In lieu of this fact doctors are requesting no visitors over the next few days.

Please keep Jaiden and the entire family in your prayers.

A Message From Auntie Pam

Please pray extra hard for Jaiden tonight. There is another MRI scheduled for tomorrow. I remain hopeful, and am extremely grateful for all the support everyone has shown to my niece, her parents, and to my entire family. May God be with all of us, but most of all with Jaiden.

This was a comment posted to the blog, but I thought it deserved a post of it's own.

Jaiden's Fund

Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa Fund


A fund has been set up at TD BankNorth on behalf of Jaiden Tlapa and her family. The community support for Jaiden and the entire Tlapa family has been truly remarkable. Community members, and local businesses continue to come forward asking how they can help.

Jaiden remains in the Intensive Care Unit at Children’s Hospital. Although the extent of her future medical needs remains unknown, a fund has been created to help defray any financial burdens.

Checks may be made payable to the Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa Fund and brought to any TD BankNorth branch.
Paul and Holleigh Tlapa have been deeply touched by the outcry of support that they have received from family, friends and the community. They have also been saddened however, at the realization that not all families are awarded the support and resources that they have received. In the event that the donations exceed the family’s needs, Holleigh and Paul plan to set up a foundation to help other families in the community with similar needs.


Donations can be made at any TD BankNorth branch.

Checks should be made payable to the:

Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa Fund

Donations can also be mailed to:

TD BankNorth
c/o Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa Fund
PO Box 783
Amherst, NH 03031

Fundraiser Meeting Reminder

Just wanted to remind you that tonight is the first meeting for the "The Jaiden Lyndi Tlapa Power of Prayer Recovery Fund".

The meeting will be held at 6:30pm in the "Back of the Lounge" meeting room at Hampshire Hills.

Anyone that wants to help with the fundraiser is welcome. It doesn't matter if you know everyone there or not a single person there. We are all there for the same purpose. To help the Tlapa family.

So please bring paper, pen, and plenty of ideas.

Thank you

Prayer Vigil

Jaiden,

The prayer vigil was beautiful. Everyone got up and lit candles for you. We all said prayers and sang songs. I know Mommy and Daddy were listening to the whole thing on the phone, but guess what???? I video taped it for you. I need to fix the tape up and then get it sent to you. I know that all the prayers that were said for you have to be helping. I know you've gotta be getting better soon.

Time for Jaiden

Here are a few more pictures of the night. Everyone was making cards, and just talking to eachother. I'm sure everyone was talking about you!

And then there was food....

Here are the cookies Jen was talking about. I didn't get to taste them, but I'm sure they were yummy because after only a few minutes they were gone.
I love the ribbons they put on them. Just like the ribbons everyone else in town is wearing.

Prayer Vigil 4pm

I've gotten a few emails today asking about whether or not the vigil is still on. I just spoke with Pastor Tom, and he assured me that the vigil will still be taking place.

I know the snow is coming down, so please give yourself enough time to get there. If you cannot make it, please take a moment at 4pm to say a prayer for Jaiden.

Thank you, and hopefully we will see you this afternoon.